Social Blog # 1 - Am I Mature? (Episode 2)

Block III. Earth,

Yet-known Solar System,

Some where in the Universe.

September 3, 2018

Dear Esteemed Readers & may be upcoming-admirers,

How has life been treating you people? What can i assume, is a good treatment. But, not the best. Well, it has been the same story line since the big bang, with probably the variable plots.

So you do not need to worry about the story line, instead, need to modify the plot as per your desire and passion.

We were talking about Mission Impossible - Ghost Protocol.

Sorry! about transformation of negative thoughts into positive thoughts.

Lets start with someone's precious-saying;

Honestly speaking! no parent, teacher, book or institute can teach you this amendment of -ve / +ve. You can only learn this by sole effort of yours. Your well-wishers can just tell you some tips & tricks to initiate your brawl against the negativity in your brain.

And believe me! I am not directing towards my self as your well-wisher Guardian.

Well! In the last episode, I addressed my self-believed definition of "Positive". You can keep those words in your mind while passing through a Paramount Time Period (P.T.P). Just think of the best possible "ABCs (Assistance-Benefits-Convenience" you can provide in your response.

Ask as much questions to yourself regarding stimulus as you can. Always consider the report card of the person who is the stimulus-provider. Never ignore your condition as well. Figure out whether you have made a mistake unwillingly or not, because possibility lies in it as well.

"Imam Jafar ibn Muḥammad As-Sadiq" said in his book "Al-Tabaqaat Al-Kubra Lil-Sharani";

Moisten your thoughts during P.S.P.P & P.R.P.P with pure-positive notions. Try till last to settle everything in good way and save the relationship, if the stimulus-provider is a closed one.

Example of Positive Decision Making

Scenario : Four best friends for a decade.

Stimulus : One is getting Depression from others.

P.S.P : Some people are giving sharp-pricking-depression by behaving violently. I know they are doing this by will. I know that they want me to feel low. I know that they want me to be unhappy.
But wait ! How i can be so sure that they are doing by will? How can i be so definite that they want me to feel low or to be unhappy? Do they do it frequently? Who are they? Are they my closed-ones, moderate-ones or the occasional-birds? If i behave the same way they are doing, will it be wrong or not? Is it really a depression or am i just taking it so harshly for me?
Okay! I have chosen to be calm. I am going to ignore because they may be in some depression or internal misery. If they are, they will not understand my angry-hard-reaction and this may lead to a chaotic fight. They are my best friends and I will give them a chance. They will understand that they did wrong. And by the way, I am not the one who fights and creates haphazard environment. Perhaps, I am wrong this time but unable to discover my wrongs. So, I need to evaluate whether i am flawed or not. I need to be tranquil. I will ask them in few days that why the behaved like that. Because communicating with open-wide-expanded but not hypertrophied heart always create a friendly atmosphere & and causes misunderstandings to settle down.

P.R.P : Final moment! I am going to respond what i have decided. Can I? Should I? Let me ponder over for another second. Okay! I am done. Its time to be calm & be positive.

Response : Calm & Relaxed. Observing & Analyzing. Communicating.

Conclusion : You just avoided a catastrophe by keeping your harsh reactions locked in a dungeon. You just saved a relationship of decade to be broken down. You just cared more for the issues of other persons than yours that is a golden sign of better human being. You just realised that you are not that person who creates mayhem in others' life by fighting. You just gained the sense of true-friendship.
                       

Look! how much fruitful results you will gain by just allotting decent-adequate time to Post-Stimulus Probe. The more you lengthen this phase, the more time you will have to ask questions to yourself; therefore, more time to gather positive theories, that will further lead to summarize your respond with more affirmations.

"Benjamin Franklin", the US polymath-politician-author-etc, said in 1748;

Athenian Orator & Politician, "Antiphon", spoke the following lines in fifth-century;

It seems by reading above quotes, Time is ancient-older-wrinkled. But, still being valued excessively by the universe. 

After going through both the episodes of my Social Blog # 1, you respected-may-be-admirers must have understood one fact;

"Time is the root to grow Mature".

Because if there is no provision of ample time (to yourself, by yourself) for positive decision-making phases, it will be harder for you to look deep into the well, full of salubrious-positive-thoughts & undoubtedly; more than 0.05% probability of accepting a false null hypothesis i.e. wrong ideas.

I, thereby, conclude my this first social blog with the post-blog pray that you all may-be-admirers will keep control over yourself, give time to your thoughts, care more for your loved-ones & never ever get involved in negative decision making.

And one more thing, that young-charming-cute-handsome-hyperactive boy, discussed in the last episode, had developed his own poultry farm and when he hit the bench, he was actually running to catch the chick (Young Chicken, by the way) who escaped from the cage. So, make yourself correct.

But wait! How a poultry farm can be located near a public park? Strange.

Hope you all will remain happy, healthy and humans (3 Hs).

Kind regards,

Doctor Sahab.