Social Blog # 1 - Am I Mature? (Episode 1)

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Yet-known Solar System,

Some where in the Universe.

September 1, 2018

Dear Esteemed Readers & may be upcoming-admirers,

How has life been treating you people? What can i assume, is a good treatment. But, not the best. Well, it has been the same story line since the big bang, with probably the variable plots.

So you do not need to worry about the story line, instead, need to modify the plot as per your desire and passion.

The word "Mature" is currently under the ownership of English Language; but actually, this word was stolen from Latin libraries. How sad it is to hear !

Began as Latin "maturus" in fifteenth-century, is now a popular entity as "mature" in the world.

According to Oxford Dictionary, word "mature" is elaborated in several ways as;

1. Fully developed physically.

2. (especially of a young person) having reached a stage of mental or emotional development characteristic of an adult.

3. (of thought or planning) careful and thorough.

But I am not bound to accept the Oxford's line of thoughts. My frame of thinking regarding this is a bit divergent.

According to my brain (Seriously?),

"Mature is the state of being decisive in a positive manner".

I know it does not seem much alike of the typical concepts of this word. But believe me! 

Actually not! Just read the text further more.

I said "being decisive", but decisive of / for what?

For example; a three-years of young-charming-cute-handsome-hyperactive-naughty boy, playing & running violently in the park, is hit moderately by a naughty bench of wooden material, placed in the park for stalking. Or in a better way, he hit the bench. 

What will be his response?

In majority of cases, his pure-tears will shed from the eyes on his red-healthy cheeks, his nose will present red with running purity over lips, and his mouth will be expanded with all its strength, allowing dense-spreading shout to exit and purified material of former-explained-regions to enter. 

But the same young-charming-cute-handsome-hyperactive-naughty boy, hit the same bench hardly after twenty years while running to catch a beautiful-young chick with brown hairs, will respond surely in a different manner. He will not cry, i believe, unless he looses the chick for life; Sad story.

Why is the response contrasting in two age groups?

Because the older-naughty boy is able to make a positive decision. He knows that there is no benefit in crying rather surrounding bugs will laugh over his tears; he may think.

So, for me;

a person is said to be "Mature" if he can make positive decisions in his / her life. 

What do I mean by word "Positive"?

Several acclaimed-dictionaries provide many meanings of this word, considering different aspects. Some of them I really can not understand yet.

But what I believe regarding this;

Any element in the environment providing Assistance-Benefit-Convenience (ABCs) to;

1. the person himself / herself.

2. the surrounding entities, including livings & non-livings.

What do I mean by word "Decision"?

What Cambridge Dictionary says,

A choice that you make about something 

after thinking about several possibilities.

This is a good defining criteria for word "Decision", elaborating majority aspects in a single line.

And I won't expound this further. No Thank Yous please!  

What are the phases for making every "Decision"?

1. Post-Stimulus Probe Phase (P.S.P.P)

Whenever you get a stimulus of any kind from anywhere, you will find a duration before your response to that specific stimulus. It is the duration of time in which you analyse the intensity of the stimulus and choose how to react on the stimulus. This analysis is called "Post-Stimulus Probe (P.S.P)" while the duration is called "Post-Stimulus Probe Phase (P.S.P.P)".

It means "Oh! I hit this bench hardly & there is pain over the hit-region, but it is not bleeding & i can move that part as well; hence, no need to panic. So I won't panic and just rub that part to reduce pain". 

2. Pre-Reaction Probe Phase (P.R.P.P)

After passing the P.S.P. phase, another phase of final analysis comes in which is called "Pre-Reaction Probe Phase (P.R.P.P)" and the analysis is called "Pre-Reaction Probe (P.R.P)". It is the phase when you lastly scrutinise your Post-Stimulus Prob before initiating the final response.

It means "Yes! I have decided the response that I am going to rub the hit-part to reduce the pain without panic; but, should I finally respond in the way I decided?".

It is a critical phase because many of the decisions that are negative, what we think are positive, can be turned towards affirmation during P.R.P.P.

3. Paramount Time Period (P.T.P)

It is the total summation of Post-Stimulus Probe Phase & Pre-Reaction Probe Phase. i.e.

The length of this period varies from stimulus to stimulus. The more important the stimulus, the more length of the  Paramount Time Period.

How to use these phases in a Positive way for making "Positive Decisions"?

The key factor behind making every positive decision is to uplift positive thoughts in your brain, above every negative reasoning. i.e. transforming negativity into a positive aspect.

But what you think, turning negativity into a positive thought is;

It surely requires extreme-serious-diligent effort.
But,
Despite much strenuous requirement, this is not a Mission Impossible - Ghost Protocol.

To be continued...

Hope you all will remain happy, healthy and humans (3 Hs).

Kind regards,

Doctor Sahab.